{"id":7541,"date":"2025-05-14T13:33:39","date_gmt":"2025-05-14T06:33:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/?p=7541"},"modified":"2026-02-06T19:42:17","modified_gmt":"2026-02-06T12:42:17","slug":"considering-military-education-for-children-from-a-psychological-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/en\/considering-military-education-for-children-from-a-psychological-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Not Just Marching in Line: Building Positive Discipline and Character According to Child Psychologists"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><em>Considering Military Education for Children from a Psychological Perspective &#8211;<\/em><\/strong> When it comes to raising children to have good character, we often think hard about how to do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We want them to be disciplined, but it seems like being strict is the only way. Well, according to child psychologists, there is a more enjoyable way, called positive discipline!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The gist is this: positive discipline isn&#8217;t just about punishing children every time they make a mistake, like in military training.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Far from it! It&#8217;s more about how we teach and guide our little ones so they understand why rules exist, why they need to be responsible, and how to avoid repeating the same mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1-1024x576.webp\" alt=\"pendidikan militer anak\" class=\"wp-image-6543\" style=\"aspect-ratio:16\/9;object-fit:contain\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1-1024x576.webp 1024w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1-450x253.webp 450w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1-700x394.webp 700w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/Menimbang-Pendidikan-Militer-Anak-dari-Sisi-Psikologi_1.webp 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.6px;\">\u00a9<\/span> illustrated by meta ai<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n<div role=\"navigation\" aria-label=\"Table of Contents\" class=\"simpletoc wp-block-simpletoc-toc\"><h4 class=\"simpletoc-title\">Table of content<\/h4>\n<style>html { scroll-behavior: smooth; }<\/style><ul class=\"simpletoc-list\">\n<li><a href=\"#beneran-anak-harus-mengikut-pendidikan-militer\">Really? Children Must Undergo Military Training?<\/a>\n\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li><\/ul><\/div>\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"beneran-anak-harus-mengikut-pendidikan-militer\">Really? Children Must Undergo Military Training?<\/h2>\n\n\n<p>Psychologists like Dr. Jane Nelsen say that this method makes children feel \u201cI am valuable\u201d and \u201cI am part of the family.\u201d When they feel comfortable and important, they are more willing to cooperate, rather than just obeying out of fear. This is very different from those who rely on yelling or pinching, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Through positive discipline, children are taught important skills for their future lives. These range from solving problems on their own, being able to feel what others feel (empathy), to controlling themselves when they are upset or really want something.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gradually, this builds their character into responsible individuals who care about others and don&#8217;t give up easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, it&#8217;s not just about looking neat and tidy, but their good character grows from within. Children become more confident to do the right thing, not because they are told to or threatened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a great investment for their future so that they become people who are not only smart, but also have a good heart and principles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:14px\"><strong>Read Also : <a href=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/dampak-buruk-anak-kecanduan-gadget\/\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/dampak-buruk-anak-kecanduan-gadget\/\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/parenting-untuk-gen-beta\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/parenting-untuk-gen-beta\/\">Important Secrets! Parenting Tips for Educating Generation Beta<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"kesimpulannya\">In conclusion<\/h4>\n\n\n<p>Simply put, let&#8217;s shift our focus from <em>\u201cchildren must not make mistakes\u201d<\/em> to<em> \u201cchildren learn from their mistakes.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The way to do this is through love, meaningful communication, and teaching them how to deal with difficult feelings. According to child psychologists, this is the surefire way to maximize your child&#8217;s character development!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hopefully this article is useful \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div data-wp-context=\"{ &quot;autoclose&quot;: false, &quot;accordionItems&quot;: [] }\" data-wp-interactive=\"core\/accordion\" role=\"group\" class=\"wp-block-accordion is-layout-flow wp-block-accordion-is-layout-flow\">\n<div data-wp-class--is-open=\"state.isOpen\" data-wp-context=\"{ &quot;id&quot;: &quot;accordion-item-1&quot;, &quot;openByDefault&quot;: false }\" data-wp-init=\"callbacks.initAccordionItems\" data-wp-on-window--hashchange=\"callbacks.hashChange\" class=\"wp-block-accordion-item is-layout-flow wp-block-accordion-item-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading\"><button aria-expanded=\"false\" aria-controls=\"accordion-item-1-panel\" data-wp-bind--aria-expanded=\"state.isOpen\" data-wp-on--click=\"actions.toggle\" data-wp-on--keydown=\"actions.handleKeyDown\" id=\"accordion-item-1\" type=\"button\" class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading__toggle\"><span class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading__toggle-icon\" aria-hidden=\"true\">+<\/span><span class=\"wp-block-accordion-heading__toggle-title\">Resource<\/span><\/button><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div inert aria-labelledby=\"accordion-item-1\" data-wp-bind--inert=\"!state.isOpen\" id=\"accordion-item-1-panel\" role=\"region\" class=\"wp-block-accordion-panel is-layout-flow wp-block-accordion-panel-is-layout-flow\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/cmc.marmot.org\/Record\/.b27059145\" target=\"_blank\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/cmc.marmot.org\/Record\/.b27059145\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Nelsen, J., Lott, L., &amp; Glenn, H. S. (2007). Positive Discipline A-Z: 1001 Solutions to Everyday Parenting Problems.<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Considering Military Education for Children from a Psychological Perspective &#8211; When it comes to raising children to have good character, we often think hard about how to do it. We want them to be disciplined, but it seems like being strict is the only way. 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