{"id":7771,"date":"2023-05-07T06:28:10","date_gmt":"2023-05-07T06:28:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/?p=7771"},"modified":"2026-04-11T15:59:50","modified_gmt":"2026-04-11T08:59:50","slug":"tiger-parenting-a-controversial-parenting-method-from-china","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/en\/tiger-parenting-a-controversial-parenting-method-from-china\/","title":{"rendered":"Get to Know Tiger Parenting, a Highly Controversial Parenting Concept"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><em>Tiger Parenting, a Controversial Parenting Method from China<\/em><\/strong> &#8211; Recently, the emergence of the term <strong>\u201cTiger Parenting&#8221;<\/strong> has become a hot topic in the world of parenting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is a child-rearing concept outlined by an author named Amy Chua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In her book titled <em>Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother<\/em>, she explains the significant influence of Chinese culture on the success she has achieved in raising her children.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"754\" height=\"754\" src=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Tiger-Parenting-Metode-Pola-Asuh-dari-China-yang-jadi-Kontroversi-1.webp\" alt=\"tiger parenting\" class=\"wp-image-1463\" style=\"width:377px;height:377px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Tiger-Parenting-Metode-Pola-Asuh-dari-China-yang-jadi-Kontroversi-1.webp 754w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Tiger-Parenting-Metode-Pola-Asuh-dari-China-yang-jadi-Kontroversi-1-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Tiger-Parenting-Metode-Pola-Asuh-dari-China-yang-jadi-Kontroversi-1-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Tiger-Parenting-Metode-Pola-Asuh-dari-China-yang-jadi-Kontroversi-1-12x12.webp 12w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 754px) 100vw, 754px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><span style=\"letter-spacing: 0.6px;\">\u00a9<\/span> theconversation<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Becoming a best-selling author made Amy Chua a trending topic regarding the parenting method she wrote about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Chua, the parenting method she practices has had a positive impact on her children, as evidenced by their academic success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cTiger Parenting\u201d refers to a strict and authoritarian parenting method that is applied in a clear and seemingly harsh manner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As stated in the first part of her book:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-medium-font-size is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>&#8220;The Tiger, the living symbol of strength and power, generally inspires fear and respect.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>According to the American Psychological Association, tiger parenting combines both highly negative and highly positive parenting styles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Examples of the traits and rules applied to children using the tiger parenting method include the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Parents do not allow their children to spend time with their friends more often, let alone have them stay overnight.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Parents insist that their children get top grades on every test, and there are severe consequences if they fail to do so.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your child is more afraid to tell you anything, fearing they will be scolded if you don\u2019t approve.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Parents seem not to trust their children in many matters and constantly remind and order their children around.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Parents rely more on rules and always assume that rules must not be broken.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"the-pros-and-cons-of-tiger-parenting\">The Pros and Cons of Tiger Parenting<\/h3>\n\n\n<p>Everything has its own pros and cons, and the same goes for the concept of tiger parenting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this section, we outline the pros and cons of tiger parenting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>It tends to encourage children to always practice self-discipline; by following the rules, children can understand the importance of a disciplined life.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Although the fear of punishment looms large, children become more mindful and cautious in their every action.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tiger parenting aims to raise children who will grow up to be responsible, successful adults\u2014children who are goal-oriented and focused.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:14px\"><strong>Read Also<\/strong>: <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/dampak-buruk-anak-kecanduan-gadget\/\"><\/a><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/vivalakidsworld.com\/parents\/parenting-dari-jepang\/\">Japanese Parenting: From Culture to Education for Children<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cons: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>High expectations from parents can make children feel stressed and overwhelmed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Children are often afraid to improvise because they fear making mistakes and facing punishment.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Constant fear can lead to anxiety and depression in children.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It hinders children\u2019s creativity and development because they are always required to follow strict rules.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"the-tiger-parenting-approach-sparks-controversy\">The \u2018Tiger Parenting\u2019 Approach Sparks Controversy<\/h3>\n\n\n<p>The \u201ctiger parenting\u201d approach has sparked debate among many people. Although this method may seem harsh, it can yield the positive results that parents hope for and dream of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Regardless of the controversy, it ultimately comes down to parents making wise and appropriate choices when selecting a parenting style to practice with their children.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tiger Parenting, a Controversial Parenting Method from China &#8211; Recently, the emergence of the term \u201cTiger Parenting&#8221; has become a hot topic in the world of parenting. It is a child-rearing concept outlined by an author named Amy Chua. 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